There are many marriages (some of them in high places) that have become nightmares for the components of the homes - spouses and children. Until around 2014, I shared the herd and hasty belief that women are the first-level casualties in marriages, thus erroneously belittling the agony that many men suffer in marriages.

Today, we will like to have our responses to the question WHAT TO DO?

What do you feel when you have done and tried everything you know and that you can, yet it appears that the enemy seems to be winning in your marriage? What to do?

How do you feel when the ship you happily hopped onto, with lofty dreams and expectations appears to be sinking and as a matter of fact, you can see fellow travellers drowning already?

Beloved, what do you do and feel when you are very sure that God indeed instructed you to embark on this journey, led you onto this ship (marriage) and yet you are now wrecking?

When the family members, pastors, mentors, friends, colleagues and even neighbours have waded into a marital dispute but no recipe seems to be achieving marital bliss, what to do?

When you keep repaying good for evil and love for bitterness but the other person appears avowed to continue breaking your heart, what to do?

What to do when the children you both are supposed to raise in Christ’s love via a Christian home become the causalities of your lingering marital crises?

What to do when you have prayed and fasted, vigiled, attended therapy, apologised for your wrongs and for whatever your spouse may have alleged you of, and yet no joy?

What to do when the supposed breadwinner or helpmeet decides to be idle and leave you striving to gather alone, or s/he is even scattering as you gather?

What to do when your sacrifices in making your marriage work don’t amount to anything and in fact, you are publicly derided by the person who is supposed to be celebrating you?

What to do when your in-laws are the bosses in your marriage?

What to do when your spouse has become diabolical and not retreating from such a path?

We have treated violence in marriage, but what to do when emotional or financial or sexual or spiritual or combinations of these abuses have been your fate for many months or years?

What to do when the marriage you desired so much has become the aspect of your life that causes you the worst pains/sorrow or that you wish never happened?

What to do when your spouse is a dignitary in Christian gatherings but unrecognisable and the prayer project at home?

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